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| Acknowledgments |
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| Congratulations! |
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Can We Talk Money?: The Wedding Budget |
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9 | (24) |
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Consideration of Finances |
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Appointing a Financial Minister |
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13 | (1) |
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Creating Wedding Budget Spreadsheets |
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14 | (4) |
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Determining Realistic Costs |
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18 | (2) |
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Where's the Money Going to Come From? |
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20 | (1) |
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Contracts: Get Everything in Writing |
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20 | (2) |
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Tracking Your Disbursements |
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22 | (4) |
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26 | (1) |
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Ask a Friend or Hire a Professional? |
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27 | (2) |
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Traditional Manner in Which Costs Are Divided |
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29 | (3) |
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32 | (1) |
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Getting Organized with a Plan of Attack: Hiring the Right Team |
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33 | (24) |
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33 | (4) |
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37 | (2) |
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The Ceremony and Reception Sites |
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39 | (2) |
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41 | (1) |
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Creating Your Tools: Resource and Wedding Day Binders |
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42 | (4) |
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Assembling the Right Team |
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46 | (7) |
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Common Points on All Vendor Contracts |
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53 | (1) |
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Other Important Vendor Information |
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54 | (3) |
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Hiring Your Team Leader: The Professional Wedding Consultant |
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57 | (26) |
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Finding a Competent Professional Wedding Consultant |
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59 | (3) |
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How Wedding Consultants Work |
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62 | (11) |
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Can a Wedding Consultant Really Save You Money? |
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73 | (2) |
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Can a Wedding Consultant Really Save the Day? |
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75 | (1) |
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How Wedding Consultants Charge |
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76 | (5) |
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The Wedding Consultant's Contract |
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81 | (2) |
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Who's Going to Do What and When?: The Wedding Day Schedule |
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83 | (10) |
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84 | (3) |
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87 | (4) |
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91 | (2) |
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Let's Party: The Engagement, Wedding Attendants, and Celebrations |
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93 | (18) |
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94 | (4) |
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Selecting Those Who Are Going to Stand Up for You |
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98 | (7) |
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Gifts for the Wedding Party |
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105 | (1) |
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Showers and Other Pre-wedding Parties |
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106 | (3) |
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109 | (2) |
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Where, Oh Where?: Selecting the Site, Officiant, and Tradition |
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111 | (12) |
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112 | (2) |
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Officiants, Premarital Instruction, and Ceremonies |
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114 | (3) |
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On-Site Wedding Coordinators or Consultants |
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117 | (1) |
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The Nonreligious Ceremonial Site |
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118 | (1) |
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118 | (3) |
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Your Contracts with the Sites |
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121 | (2) |
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When Dresses Become Gowns: The Bridal Gown and Mothers' and Attendants' Dresses |
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123 | (36) |
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Researching the Gown of Your Dreams |
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128 | (5) |
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133 | (6) |
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139 | (2) |
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Being Measured for Your Gown |
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141 | (3) |
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144 | (1) |
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145 | (1) |
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146 | (1) |
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147 | (3) |
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Short-Term Care of Your Gown |
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150 | (1) |
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151 | (4) |
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155 | (1) |
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156 | (3) |
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Invitations, Notes, and Things: Your Stationery |
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159 | (24) |
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160 | (1) |
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161 | (1) |
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Elements of the Invitation |
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161 | (9) |
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170 | (2) |
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172 | (1) |
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Other Stationery Concerns |
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173 | (5) |
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Divvying Up the Invitations |
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178 | (3) |
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181 | (2) |
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``Cocktails, Anyone?'': The Wedding Reception |
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183 | (44) |
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184 | (2) |
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186 | (7) |
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193 | (5) |
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198 | (3) |
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201 | (1) |
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202 | (4) |
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206 | (9) |
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The Flow of the Reception |
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215 | (10) |
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225 | (2) |
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We Walk into the Lily of the Valley to Create a Scene: Flowers, Decorations, Lighting |
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227 | (18) |
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Shopping for a Floral Designer |
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231 | (5) |
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The Floral Designer Goes to Work |
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236 | (1) |
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237 | (2) |
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Design Elements Your Floral Designer Can Provide |
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239 | (3) |
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242 | (3) |
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Smile ... You're Gonna Be in Pictures: Your Photographer and Videographer |
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245 | (24) |
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246 | (1) |
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247 | (1) |
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248 | (1) |
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Environmental Photography |
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249 | (1) |
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250 | (1) |
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250 | (1) |
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250 | (1) |
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Other Important Terminology |
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251 | (8) |
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Finding the Right Photographer |
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259 | (5) |
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Finding the Right Videographer |
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264 | (5) |
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The Language of the Soul: The Music |
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269 | (16) |
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Finding and Interviewing Musicians |
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269 | (1) |
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Hear the Musicians Perform |
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270 | (4) |
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274 | (1) |
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275 | (3) |
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278 | (5) |
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283 | (2) |
| Epilogue: Sure, You're Having a Wedding, But It's the Marriage That's Important |
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285 | (4) |
| Resources |
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289 | (16) |
| Suggested Reading |
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305 | (4) |
| Index |
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